by Jan Van Doren
1. You will receive a body. You may
like it or hate it, but it will be yours for the entire
period this time around.
2. You will learn lessons. You are
enrolled in a full-time informal school called "life."
Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to
learn lessons. You may like the lessons, or think them
irrelevant and stupid.
3. There are no mistakes, only
lessons. Growth is a process of trial and error,
experimentation. The "failed" experiments are as much a
part of the process as the experiment that ultimately
"works."
4. A lesson is repeated until
learned. A lesson will be presented to you in various
forms until you have learned it. When you have learned
it, you can then go on to the next lesson.
5. Learning lessons does not end.
There is no part of life that does not contain its
lessons. If you are alive, there are lessons to learn.
6. "There" is no better than "here."
When your "there" has become a "here," you will obtain
another "there" that will, again, look better than
"here."
7. Others are merely mirrors of you.
You cannot love or hate something about another person
unless it reflects to you something you love or hate
about yourself.
8. What you make of your life is up
to you. You have all the tools and resources you need.
What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours.
9. Your answers lie inside you. The
answers to life's questions lie inside you. All you need
to do is look, listen, and trust.
10. You will forget all the above.